Men are often confused about themselves. Men frequently think that they are unimportant. Men think loving is for women. Men will look at you in horror if you talk to them about how to love yourself. That is so sad!
Do you know what love is? Do you know who you are? Can you honestly say that you know how to love yourself. This concept probably means nothing to you, it is outside your realm of experience. It is as if someone came up to you and asked you how to get to Mars, you would have no idea how to answer.
When I talk about ‘How To Love a Woman’, I really mean ‘How To Be The Man Your Woman Will Love’. It is about how you are, as a man, in yourself. How you show up, how you portray yourself? It is about more than learning how to love, it is learning how to live.
Be The Man
In the story of my relationship with my wife I talk about the shift I made, about the transformation. It is important to understand that the shift was not where I suddenly learned about women and how to love them. It was where I suddenly learned about myself, who I was, who I was trying to be. I came to see how important this was to any potential partner.
Men, you start to relate to a woman because you are attracted by her. You realise, later, that you do not know how to go beyond that attraction. You do not know how to love her, how to get her to love you. You want to love her and you want the relationship to grow and be powerful.
You discover something important when you embark on a relationship. You discover that women are different from men. You discover that it is not enough to have a relationship with a woman. Read more
How to be a man? Most men don’t think they need to know. Most men just carry on as if everything is OK. Can’t you see how you are losing out?
Me and my Dad
I am organising an evening event, here in Spain, on ‘Sizzling Relationships’. It’s based on the work I do with men, helping them learn how to be a man. There are lots of women signing up, even though my work is mainly with men. They are having difficulties, however, getting their men to come.
I am also having difficulties getting men to sign up for my course on ‘How To Love A Woman’..
What’s happening? Where are they? Where are the men? Don’t they want to know ‘How To Be A Man’? Read more
Men make up around half the population and the other half seem to get annoyed by them most of the time. Why are men so annoying?
Maybe you love men and find their little habits endearing and lovable? Here are the habits that I see that women find difficult to take (or are they just annoying things men do?)
A month ago I wrote a popular post about "How To Love A Woman - 10 Ways A Man Can Love" with my recommendations to men on how to love their woman.
Sex is important to us men not just because it's fun but also because it's a way of deeply connecting with our women. We all want sex tonight but we want the right kind of sex. We don't want the old, macho, sex where we just go for quick pleasure. We don't want to dominate our woman and hope she enjoys herself. We don't want to hope for the best, hope that we get it right, we want it to work...