How to Love a Man — 10 Steps for Women

I rise to the challenge of supporting women, so here is the lowdown.

A month ago I wrote a popular post about ‘How To Love A Woman – 10 Ways A Man Can Love‘ with my recommendations to men on how to love their woman. In it I said,

How often do you hear men say, “My wife doesn’t understand me.” What they really mean is, “I don’t understand my wife.

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Infinite Expectation Of The Dawn — Find Your Brilliance

The influence of spiritual energy in our lives goes beyond our expectations.

How do you relate to the environment you live in? What appreciation of the flow of nature do you have? Reawaken to the dawn? Does this mean anything to you?

We must learn to reawaken and keep ourselves awake, not by mechanical aid, but by an infinite expectation of the dawn.
—Henry David Thoreau

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How To Love A Woman – 10 Ways For Men To Love

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Men seek comfort, confirmation that they are ok. Most men are, at heart, uncertain about themselves. Men want answers to many questions, an important one is "How to love a woman?"

Do you know what love is? You form a relationship and get married to affirm your place in the world. You learn, you think, how to treat a woman, how to be with her and you call that love. But ultimately it doesn’t seem to work. You wonder where love went and wonder how to love a woman.

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Honour Your Shadow And Change The World

My background is in lighting design. I have spent many years designing lighting for buildings such as museums and cathedrals and, in the process, influencing and improving people's lives.

Through this I have come to understand the totality of what light means to us all, both as a physical entity and as a spiritual concept. Light is the most basic thing in our lives.

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Personal Power through Polarity

There are men out there who don't know how to be a man, as a result they are screwing up their own lives and the lives of the women they have relationships with.

These men float around seeking change and not knowing how to get it. They want to be released from the pressure of the society, the culture they live in. They want to be a man without feeling guilty about it… So why am I so angry, what’s the matter with me. I’ve just been to a great weekend in Boulder, CO, spending two days talking to men about men.

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Understand Women – Nothing To Do With Me

How can we understand women? How can we know what they are feeling? Men wonder how to get into the soul of their woman, wonder how to get close.

This morning she said to me, “I feel angry, sad, lost and alone. I can feel you, but I can’t feel you.” What did that mean? How do I deal with that? What do I do? I can guess what it’s about but it seems an extraordinary over reaction, or is it? How can I understand women?

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Energy of the Universe – Does it Transform Us?

Nelson Mandela's presence is an example to men everywhere. His focus and dedication in the face of his incarceration seems almost super-human. Men, when they 'get it' can be amazingly powerful, but how do they get there?

Is sexual polarity the spark that brings men and women together, that catches the energy of the universe, if so how and why?

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