Relationships

Relationships drive most of life, from intimate ones with your partner to the wider networks of family, colleagues and friends. Do the impulses behind loving a woman have anything in common with your connection with your father. How can you develop either or both of these to bring renewed joy and peace to your life?

How to Love a Man—10 Steps for Women

Here is the lowdown for women on 'How To Love A Man'. It is a necessary guide for today's men. Men need to feel good about themselves and often don't. They may live in their power but not be convinced by it.

How Women Test Men—How Do Men Respond?

There are three men Tom, Dick and Harry. How do they react to women, how do they react to the female? This is a key indicator of how much they understand women. It is a key to their masculinity.

10 Men Who Can't Love—Is That You?

Men and love, it's important to consider the men who find love difficult. The men who, therefore, can't find love. These men exist and tend to cause chaos in their attempts at relationships with women.

How To Love A Woman—10 Ways For Men To Love

Do you seek comfort, confirmation that you are alright? Are you, at heart, uncertain about yourself? Of course, you want answers to many questions, and an important one is ‘How to Love a Woman?’

A Conversation About Men And Relationships

Many men seem to have problems in relationships. Often they are men who have a reputation for an inability to commit to long-term relationships. Is this true? Does this represent your experience.

Executive Order on Immigrant—International Reaction

Political Leaders around the world reacted in strong terms to the closing of the United States Borders to certain immigrants. As a nation that values tolerance diversity and freedom, we cannot just say: 'It's not our problem'.

I Intend To Boycott The United States Of America

I propose to implement a withdrawal from American politics and culture and focus on Europe. If you live outside the US consider joining me and if you live in the US please accept, and support, the necessity of this approach.

The Darker the Night, the Brighter the Stars

The message America needs right now. At this time of fear and uncertainty in the world, let alone the US, there must be some comfort we can find in what has happened, there must be some good that we cannot comprehend.

How To Love Yourself—The Key to your Amazing Future

Men are often confused about themselves. Men frequently think that they are unimportant. To grow as a man and learn how to be with a woman you need to start with yourself. Loving yourself is the end you should aim for.

Fatherhood—Does It Matter? Yes, Now More Than Ever!

I posed in a boat with my father, I wonder now whether fatherhood matters. Reading 'Why Fatherhood Matters' in Esquire I understand why it does. I understood what my father did for me, how he helped me.

How I Found A Fabulous Marriage Using A Relationship Vision

For me great relationships are part of what makes life tick, when I became a single man in my fifties the prospect of a new relationship terrified me. I used a Relationship Vision to create an amazing marriage.

Being a Grandfather—The Joys and the Lessons Learned

I recently became a Grandfather for the first time. I am overjoyed about this but am aware that it is not as simple as it seems. I am sure I have a great deal more to learn about the joys of grandfatherhood—I hope so.

How My 91 Year Old Relative Showed Me The Secret To A Powerful Relationship

What the difference is between loneliness and aloneness, and how dependency can destroy a relationship. Although she remembers family life long ago, she has lost her emotional strength.

WhatsApp in the Ukraine — When Masculine Paradigms Collide

What will you stand up for, what are you willing to die for? The new masculine paradigm of strength with responsibility is alive and growing. Men are fighting to rid the world of the masculinity that no longer serves, that destroys.

What Causes Men To Change—Is It Women Who Drive Them?

It is women who cause men to change. It is women who cause men to really see themselves. It is women who cause men to be great. They want to see their men be grounded. They want to see masculinity in their men.

How Men and Women React to Tragedy and Moral Responsibility

With the tragic shooting of schoolchildren in Newtown, Connecticut, we should all look at how we react and take moral responsibility for what happened. If we did this we would find that we could create a new future through change.

Be The Man Your Woman Will Love

When I talk about 'How To Love a Woman', I really mean 'How To Be The Man Your Woman Will Love'. It is about how you are, as a man, in yourself. How you show up, how you portray yourself? It is learning how to live.

How To Be A Good Father—Be Engaged

Recently I found myself face to face with the question 'How To Be A Good Father', all because of some girls fascinated with flamenco. I saw a father struggling to be part of his family, struggling to be with his daughters.

Understanding Women—The Key To Amazing Relationships

When I was young I had no clue what made women tick, I had no idea about understanding women. Women were a foreign country to me with a language I didn't understand. I was shy and didn't know what to do.

The Magic of Certainty

While building a confidence course for other men, I learned the source of my determination. It appears in me knowing what I want and knowing the direction I want to go in. Others will choose to come alongside and work with me.

Why Do Men Cheat—The Dirty Lowdown Of The Affair

Women seem to talk constantly about why men cheat. There is a perception that men cheat all the time, is this true? It creates an impression that men are not to be trusted, do you find this?

Love Is Not Arousal

Perhaps the only thing that is more suspicious than a father being affectionate with his daughter, is a father being affectionate with his son! It's a generational issue. If we show our emotions we allow others to be open and authentic.

If I Could Hold On Through The Tears And Laughter

And if I could hold on—Through the tears and the laughter—Would it be beautiful—Or just a beautiful disaster?—What's beyond the tears and laughter?

6 Lessons on How to Live a Great Life

For all those men who are wondering how to live and love. There is a lot of pressure on men from all sides, pressure to justify, pressure to perform. The answer is simple, look at yourself and how you live.

Advice On Relationships From The Rolling Stones

I am always looking for advice on relationships and I recently found a fascinating source. In the autumn of 1963 I saw The Rolling Stones, at the Odeon Theatre in Manchester, on their first UK concert tour as a support act for American stars.

Great Relationships—Don't Faint When I Say Men Can Create Them

For me great relationships are part of what makes life tick, so when I became a single man, after a long marriage, I started dating again. The prospect of a new relationship terrified and fascinated me.

Man Traveling—Relationships On The Road

Travelling Relationships can create tension, or they can turn travel into a pleasure. Which do you look for? My relationship is based on polarity. I believe a man is best when he is in his masculine power.

Healing A Relationship—Use The Male 180

Several years ago a concept was introduced to the world of infidelity that is designed to help partners move forward in the healing of a relationship. It created a complete 180 degree rotation in actions and attitude.

Women Need Attention All The Time—So Questions, Questions!

Women need attention all the time! How do I know? There are the questions and the questions... you can ignore the questions, but don't ignore her. Give her the attention she needs. Life will be transformed.

Trust In Relationships—How I Found It

Urmila and I carried out an experiment on Trust In Relationships. She wanted to fully experience the two feminine characteristics of Trusting and Surrendering. What did it meant for me to fully experience surrender?

In A Relationship—Pleading Does Not Hack It

At dinner I was discussing men with with two ladies and whether love in a relationship is enough. We were sitting in a small Indian cafe in Little India in Singapore. One told us about a man having issues with his girlfriend.