Index Item: Masculinity

These are the library, magazine and notes index items.

How To Attract Women or What puts Women off Men?

At a recent seminar the focus was on personal development and success. There was a greater percentage of women than men. So here was a perfect opportunity for men to show themselves in their strength, but did they...

Female Goddess—How do You Keep it Fresh with One?

I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, You need to start afresh every day.

Sex and Control—Understand Your Dark Energy

Wow... It gives me goosebumps just thinking about sex. It's such an important subject. We really need to get it right, men. So much hangs on this, so much flows from the balance between sex and control.

Sexual Polarity—Is It Necessary?

I was sitting in the foyer of the hotel waiting for her. Thinking about what had been happening between us, I felt good. It was the end of the day. She came, there was just no polarity between us, she felt, no electricity, no excitement...

Understand Women—Nothing To Do With Me

How can we understand women? How can we know what they are feeling? Men wonder how to get into the soul of their woman, wonder how to get close. She wants us to understand what she is feeling and leave her to feel it.

Personal Power through Polarity

There are men out there who don't know how to be a man, as a result they are screwing up their own lives and the lives of the women they have relationships with. So how do we help these men? How do we reach them?

Inner Feminine—Let's have no more of it!

I listened to a teleseminar today about men and sex ( and inner feminine) that I thought was going to be a step forward in understanding men. Boy, was I ever wrong. Let men be men and women be women and live for each other.

Sex Tonight—10 Ways To Woo Your Woman

Sex is important to men, not just because it's fun, but also because it's a way of establishing a deep connection with women. So here's a quick run-down on how to woo your woman and get all the sex you want.

Male and Female—A Perspective

The more men come to terms with their masculinity, the more the tension grows between men and women. Yet from my perspective and my experience this movement brings men and women together.

Is Male Domination An Issue For Men—Is A New View Needed?

The domination, abuse and suppression of women by men has existed throughout history. Men physically, psychologically, socially and emotionally dominate women all over the world.

Gender Stereotyping—Why?

What is really worrying in the general debate on masculinity and femininity is that people see gender identity as a battle ground. It is similar to the stagnation of the First World War and its trenches filled with soldiers facing each other and dying for a forgotten principle.

Masculine Characteristics—A New Approach

The way to move forward as men is to develop our own norms based on our core masculine characteristics and our response to cultural conditioning, not based on cultural norms—create our personal masculinity.

Masculine and Feminine—The Future

Over the last few posts I have touched on some vital aspects of what it is to be a man and the essence of the contrast between masculine and feminine. Men, your time is now, seize it, grab the future of masculine and feminine.

The Vital Spark Of Polarity In Relationships

Polarity creates energy and intimate relationships are about energy. Gary Stamper in Beyond Integral, who knows a thing or two about relationships, has recently written on the importance of polarity in relationships.

Sex and Power Working In A Strip Club

Sex is often about power and dominance rather than simple enjoyment. Sex and Power together are not fun. I was on the receiving end of this relationship, it didn't feel good and it wasn't.

Can Women Do What Men Do?

I counter the 'equality' of Gloria Steinem and her assumptions. Over at Good Men Project—Good Feed, we heard Gloria Steinem say, " _We know that women can do what men can do, but we don't know that men can do what women can do._"

I Am Male, and I Am a Man

Being male is biological and undeniable; being a man is in my character. To understand myself as a man, I need to look at my behaviour. I write about men's ability to live and fulfil their own masculinity, and I work to help men achieve it.

Is A Woman A Feminist, A Goddess Or A Dependent

There is a famous quotation from an unknown author, "Men have two emotions—Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection, make him a sandwich". As a woman you need to see yourself as powerful and feminine.

Step Up BUT Don't Step Back

One of the biggest issues that women see in men is the inability of many men—and I mean many men—to stay true to themselves and their strength. They step up... and then... they step back. But thgey don't need to.

David DeAngelo/Eben Pagan Finally Finds Love

I received an extraordinary email from Eben Pagan recently. That's Eben Pagan who made millions as David DeAngelo of Double Your Dating. He is the man who is famous for popularising dating and The Game amongst men.

Male Dominance—Under Attack or Dead Concept?

Is it part of men's inherent male nature or does it comes from how they are nurtured? Men develop under their mother's influence and live in a society that is increasingly feminised by the media. Where does this leave them?

Sex And Gender—Does It Affect Our Everyday Experience?

Men and Women? Are they the same? What is all this disagreement over Sex and Gender? Being a man is owning your sex and your gender, not in relation to anyone else but purely in relation to who you really are.

Can Masculine Men Be Emotional—Will Relationships Work If Not

Men have a reputation for suppressing their emotions because they believe that to be emotional is to be feminine. Yet when men suppress their emotions they often destroy their relationships.

Men And Women - The Shifting Dynamic At The Extremes

How do you see what is happening in the world? How do you see it changing? How do you see the shifting dynamic between men and women? Differences between the sexes is narrowing.

Old People Love Sex Too—6 Illusions About Age And Sex

I question the stereotypes of older men having sexual performance issues and older women having physical attraction issues. I look at six illusions about age and sex for men and women.

Today I Felt the Shame of Being a Man

What it is like to be woman who is not listened to and suppressed. What men can do to fill this gender gap. Today I felt the pain of being a woman... Today I felt the shame of being a man...

7 Ways To Have Great Sex With Your Woman

Sex should always be more than just the act itself. It is a vital part of a relationship. Make it fun and relax into it and your relationship will be transformed. Great sex is fun sex, great sex is is easy.

A New Vision of Masculinity—How Can It Be Created?

Masculinity is a contentious subject. The concept of masculinity creates division and confusion. A new vision is needed, one that brings men and women together. A vision that supports both men and women.