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My name is Sat Purusha (formerly Graham Reid Phoenix). I write about masculinity, spirituality and transformation. I encourage men to drop their mask and I encourage everyone to create change and grow.

Sunday 13th December 2020—Sunshine, Home, Time

It's Sunday and I am at home enjoying the sun. It leads me to think about what does it mean to be at home and what do I spend my time doing there. Can I concentrate and focus my mind?

Saturday 12th December 2020—Covid, Brexit, Racism

It’s nine months now since our life here in Andalucia changed. I won’t say beyond recognition, because it really just refined itself down to the elements Urmila and I love. We tend to ignore the chaos in the UK and US and let them get on with it.

Being A Man—My Dogs Taught Me How To Lead

Dogs choose their leader. They do it by recognising the energy and the strength the top dog. Yes, they fight amongst themselves for it, but usually it’s just a display of confidence, there is no compulsion.

How to Become A Man in 21 Days—Feel Amazing in the Process

Men, you get advice all the time about how to live, but you are wasting your time unless you take action. You need to look at your life and change it if the advice is going to mean anything.

A New Vision of Masculinity—How Can It Be Created?

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Masculinity is a contentious subject. The concept of masculinity creates division and confusion. A new vision is needed, one that brings men and women together. A vision that supports both men and women.

Kali and Tantra—Lessons for Men

In Tantra one thing has had a powerful effect on me, that is the special relationship between men and women. The story of Kali draws powerful lessons for men from this. Men will be well to look further into this to improve their relationships.

10 Men Who Can't Love—Is That You?

Men and love, it's important to consider the men who find love difficult. The men who, therefore, can't find love. These men exist and tend to cause chaos in their attempts at relationships with women.

How Women Test Men—How Do Men Respond?

There are three men Tom, Dick and Harry. How do they react to women, how do they react to the female? This is a key indicator of how much they understand women. It is a key to their masculinity.

How to Love a Man—10 Steps for Women

Here is the lowdown for women on 'How To Love A Man'. It is a necessary guide for today's men. Men need to feel good about themselves and often don't. They may live in their power but not be convinced by it.

Obesity in Men—What Is The Truth? What Can Men Do?

Britain’s fattest man, Carl Thompson, was 33 years old and weighed 65 stone when he died in 2015. For those not from Britain, that is 410 kilos or 910 pounds. He was housebound, bed-ridden and alone.