Coaching for Men

I offer coaching for men who are committed to change in their life. I offer this programme of coaching to enable you to live your life to the full, make your mark in the world and step out as the man you truly are.

You are a man who wants to live a passionate, independent life and who wants to integrate your life and your relationship because success. I coach through my knowledge, experience and intuition, I challenge the status quo and I offer unique solutions. I am an expert on relationships, masculinity and the intersection of certainty and vulnerabiility.

The Programme of Coaching for Men

Working with me you will experience a shift in your relationships with colleagues, friends, family and partner. You will experience power in your life and gain control over it. You will live life out loud and be fully present with others. Your friends and family will notice significant change in how you show up as a man. You will stand with confidence, walk tall, be powerful with compassion, and speak your truth.

Possibilities will open up in your life that you had only dreamed of, they will now become realities. You will see the journey you need to make to realise the vision that creates, for you, a journey of passion.

The programme of Coaching for Men is based on a three step program:


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Every human has self awareness and creative imagination. These give us the power to change.

Stephen Covey

What is your personality, what are your core beliefs? How did your upbringing affect you and constrain your development? What are you passionate about and what affects you deeply?

Present Reality

What is the life you are leading now and what are you doing to create it?

How do you see your life?

Core Essence

What is in your inner core? What characteristics were you born with?

What do you feel?

Life Conditioning

How have you been altered by your life and the people around you?

How have you reacted?


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Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. Marianne Williamson

You have to like who you are and want to be that type of person. This is about accepting yourself, who you are and integrating all your parts. This requires openness and honesty.

Loving Yourself

If you don't love yourself you can never find a way to love others. Do you practice this?

Do you like who you are?

Letting Go

Letting go of your patterns and issues reveals the path to your true self.

Where do you want to go?

Emotional Heart

Move from your head to your heart and integrate your emotions.

Can you do this journey?


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We need to find the courage to say NO to the things and people that are not serving us if we want to rediscover ourselves and live our lives with authenticity. Barbara de Angelis

Look at how you relate with other people. The intention should be to be yourself so deeply, that there is no difference between how you are to yourself and how you are with others.

Stand For

It is important to know what you stand for, what you will live or die for.

What's important to you?

Serving Others

Your life is meant to serve others as well as yourself, you thrive on service.

Are you giving back?

Your Purpose

What is your purpose, how do you find it, are you living it and pursuing it?

Why do this journey?


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Steve Nash

I benefitted hugely from Purusha's coaching: from listening to his experiences of women, learning of his struggles and his successes; to seeing how it all applied to me, in my life.

I FELT his wisdom for myself, whilst in his presence; thus I felt my own wisdom. And it all came via a series of great conversations where the unknown in both of us was allowed to unfold - where all the work I'd done on myself to do with relationships could be 'seen' clearly by me, for the first time!

So I am grateful beyond words for the guidance Purusha offered me in our sessions - to being listened to - and the insights into myself I gained. And I'm also grateful I was able to put what I'd discovered into practice more or less straight away, via the beginnings of (what looks like) an incredible relationship with a fabulous woman.

So what, then, did I get from being coached by Purusha? Simply to trust myself and the wisdom/feelings I get from my body (rather than my head), and to truly be okay with who I am.

Nick Navatta

Hey Purusha! Thank you so much for the hard work and guidance you put into your course. I am just diving in and really taking my time to absorb your wisdom. I am taking this course because I am tired of tolerating BS with myself, my life, and personal relationships. When I say BS, I mean forgetting what is truly important and valuable in life and 'losing presence' in the face of life. I am excited to have the opportunity to gather with a bunch of guys to learn more about being a man in the world and in relationship! Looking forward to the journey. Thank you again.

Aaron Frater

I have found this challenging, awakening, & frustrating - I can see why some men would not want to embark on this journey, but for myself - despite fear & resistance, I want to be more than I have been expressing myself as up to this point. Wanting to be a good man, a real man—not just the nice guy average man I became from my upbringing, temperament, & life choices—is important to me. I think this is wonderful stuff, & I hope it gets out many more guys!