Female Goddess – How do You Keep it Fresh with One?
I was talking about my relationship to a female friend, talking about men, but she did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, You need to start afresh every day.
She loved what I had to tell her, I am in awe of the radiance of your relationship, she said, but she still did not understand how to keep an exciting relationship at its initial level over time. My answer was simple, You need to start afresh every day. Treat every day as if it was the start of the relationship. But how do you do that? she said.
How To Keep It Fresh
That, of course, is where the simplicity ends. The eXperience starts before the relationship does and it starts with the man and his presence. This site is not intended to be a relationship or dating site but when talking about showing up as a man it becomes impossible to leave relationships out of the equation.
So here is a quick, 10 step, run-down, for men, on how to get it going and keep it fresh with female goddesses.
1. Treat your partner as a goddess.
Because she is, otherwise why would you love her? If you don’t know how to do this then just think of everything you do as a form of worship. Make all you rinteractions sacred, you’ll soon get the message from her responses.
2. Be fully present.
When you are with her let everything else go, she is the most important part of your world. Focus on her and show that you can take anything she does without flinching.
3. Don’t make assumptions.
If in doubt, ask. You will often be in doubt, because you won’t understand what is going on in her head. That’s OK as long as you don’t assume you know what’s going on and get it completely wrong. To her that shows you haven’t been listening.
4. Understand the power of polarity.
Relationships thrive on polarity. The polarity of a masculine man in his core and a feminine woman in her core is electrifying. Keep the polarity at the forefront of the relationship and do all you can to encourage it. Believe me you will enjoy it.
5. Look your best.
Act as you did when you were first going out. Look at how you dress, how you present yourself. She wants you to behave as you did in the beginning, she wants you to keep the excitement there. Don’t become a slob!
6. Take the lead.
Men often let their woman take the lead and decide what to do. That is so wrong. Always take the lead in making decisions but ensure that you give her the space to have her say. The best is if you make the decision to do what she wants without appearing to. That’s a winner.
7. Remember she needs constant attention.
This is the absolute number one in being with a woman. Much of what she does is, in fact, to remind you of this. You can never give too much attention. If in doubt just do it.
8. Don’t take it personally.
Never, ever take anything she does, or says, personally. It is usually about something going on in her head which has nothing to do with you. While she is the most important person in your world, she is in her world. Let her be and don’t get beaten down, it’s not about you.
9. Never just say goodnight.
I really shouldn’t have to say this! Let any difficulties go at the end of the day and hold her in your arms. Give her your love and tell her you love her. Do it again in a different way and repeat. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you where to go from here.
10. Start afresh each day.
Start again as if it was the first day of the relationship. Take the ideas in the previous stage and expand on them. Welcome her into your world and look forward to your day together. Give her your love and tell her you love her. Do it again in a different way and repeat. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you where to go from here.
Sometimes it can seem overwhelming to put all these into practice at once. If that is the case then just introduce them one or two at a time. Remember to start afresh each day no matter what happened yesterday. The past does not equal the future.
If in doubt just give your female goddess constant attention.
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